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Common, Not Normal — The Complete Guide To Buffing Your Muff, by Kim Vopni

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So, How Do You Actually Fix Your Pelvic Floor...

(When "Just Do Your Kegels" Has Already Failed You?)

From: Kim Vopni, "The Vagina Coach"

Let me know if this sounds familiar...

You're standing in the grocery store and you feel a sneeze coming on. Your heart rate spikes. You cross your legs, brace yourself, squeeze — and hope.

Or you're laughing with your friends and suddenly you're not laughing anymore, because you're trying to hold everything together while pretending nothing is happening.

Or you've started quietly planning every outing around bathrooms. Every road trip. Every dinner reservation. Every workout class.

Or maybe you've stopped doing certain things altogether. Running. Lifting weights. Jumping. Playing with your kids or grandkids. Anything that feels like a gamble.

And through all of it, you've been told the same thing:

"Just do your Kegels."

You've done your Kegels. You've done them faithfully, consistently, for weeks or months or maybe years.

And you're still here.

"If I Can't Fix This With Kegels... Does Anything Even Work?"

That's the question I hear from women every single day. And it's the question that breaks my heart — not because the answer is no, but because the answer is yes, and nobody is telling women what it actually is.

Here's the truth most doctors won't say out loud:

Kegels are not the complete answer for most women.

In fact, for a significant percentage of women, doing more Kegels is actively making things worse. Because the problem isn't always a weak pelvic floor. Sometimes it's an overactive, tense, or uncoordinated one — and squeezing harder only adds to the dysfunction.

The real problem is that women have been given one tool — squeeze more — for a much more complex situation.

And that one tool has been failing them for decades.

As We Kept Learning, and Researching, and Working With Real Women...

A pattern emerged.

The women who made the most progress — who stopped leaking, who eliminated urgency, who reversed prolapse symptoms, who got their lives back — weren't the ones who did more Kegels.

They were the ones who understood their pelvic floor as part of a whole system.

They understood how breathing affects pelvic floor pressure. How posture loads or protects the pelvic floor. How the way you go to the toilet can make symptoms better or dramatically worse. How hormones, stress, footwear, and movement patterns all play a role.

They understood that the pelvic floor doesn't work in isolation — it works as part of the Core Four: the pelvic floor, the diaphragm, the deep abdominals, and the spine stabilizers, all coordinating together with every breath and every movement.

And once they understood that — everything changed.

It Doesn't Matter If You've Struggled For Months — Or Decades

I've worked with women who've been dealing with leaking for 17 years and thought it was just their new normal.

I've worked with women in their 30s who were told "this is what happens after kids" by doctors who offered nothing further.

I've worked with women in their 60s who were on the waiting list for surgery and decided to try something different first.

The timeline doesn't matter. The age doesn't matter.

What matters is having the right information — and a clear path to act on it.

That's exactly what this book gives you.

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What Are Women Already Saying About The Method In The Book?

Sarah: I used to have constant wet pants

"I used to have wet pants"— Sarah

"I am so much better I don't wear pads anymore"— Lisa

"Now I don't feel I have incontinence problem anymore"— Denise

"I have gotten complete control over my bladder now"— Jackie

As You Can See...

The Approach Inside This Book Has Already Been Used By More Than 100,000 Women Around The World... The Question Is, Are YOU Next?

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Inside This Book...

Here Are A Few Of The Things You'll Discover:

Part 1 — Start Here: Common Is Not The Same As Normal

Part 2 — Your Pelvic Floor: What It Is And What It Does

Part 3 — What You Are Dealing With

Part 4 — The Foundations

Part 5 — The Work

Part 6 — Keeping It

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My Story — And Why I Wrote This Book

Kim Vopni

From: Kim Vopni, "The Vagina Coach"
Vancouver, Canada

My interest in pelvic health started earlier than most.

In sixth grade, I watched a video about childbirth in school. It fascinated me.

It also scared me. I went home and asked my mom every question I could think of.

She was an operating room nurse, so she gave me straight answers.

She told me about her own births — episiotomies with both deliveries. That conversation lodged somewhere in my mind and didn't leave.

Years later, when I was in university, my mom had a hysterectomy.

It was the solution offered for her heavy bleeding.

She accepted it as what needed to happen.

Several years after that, she had surgery for incontinence.

I think about those moments now with everything I know, and I wonder:

What if she'd had access to more complete information?

What if someone had told her about pelvic floor physiotherapy, or about hormones, or that hysterectomy increases the risk of incontinence and prolapse?

Would she have needed those surgeries — or chosen them?

I don't know.

That Question Changed The Direction Of My Life

When my sister-in-law gave birth in 2002 and invited my husband and me into the room, something shifted in me.

Watching a woman birth her baby — supported, informed, surrounded by midwives — changed how I understood what the female body was capable of.

I became pregnant the following year.

I started researching everything I could about preparing the body for birth. A midwife mentioned a device called the EPI-NO.

I researched it, bought it, and used it to prepare for my births.

That decision is what led me to where I am today.

I contacted the manufacturer and asked to become their Canadian distributor. I got recertified as a personal trainer. I collaborated with and learned from pelvic health professionals.

I started talking to my personal training clients about pelvic health and leading in-person workshops and events. Women showed up hungry for information nobody had ever given them.

In 2009 I founded Kegels & Cocktails.

In 2011 I co-founded Bellies Inc.

In 2013 I launched a professional-level course to train other fitness professionals in how to work with women with core and pelvic floor challenges.

I became a certified Hypopressive Method trainer, a Restorative Exercise Specialist, an osteoporosis-certified trainer and a Certified Menopause Support Practitioner.

And through all of it — working with thousands of women over 20+ years — I kept hearing the same things.

"I didn't know this was a problem until it was already affecting everything."

"My doctor just told me to do Kegels and sent me home."

"I thought this was just what getting older felt like."

"Nobody told me this was preventable."

Nobody gave them the manual. This book is that manual — the answer I wish every one of those women had been given sooner.

It is straight-talking and built for real life — not a medical textbook, not a one-size-fits-all exercise plan.

A complete, honest guide to understanding your pelvic floor and taking back control of your body.

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Now, I Know What You're Probably Thinking...

"I've Tried Pelvic Floor Exercises Before — And They Didn't Work"

And that's exactly why you need this book.

If exercises alone haven't worked...

It's almost certainly because you were doing the wrong type for your specific situation...

Or doing them incorrectly (the research shows the majority of women are)...

Or missing the other half of the equation — the pressure management, the breathing, the posture, and the lifestyle factors that determine whether exercises work or don't.

This book shows you the complete picture — not just the exercises.

Oh, And In Case You're Wondering...

There Is NO CATCH!

I am giving you this book for free. All you pay for is shipping. That's it!

You pay the shipping. You get the book. That's it.

So why am I doing this?

A few honest reasons:

Because I believe every woman deserves this information. My mother didn't have it. I didn't have it either, and figured out a lot on my own along the way — in part because of my own struggles. Millions of women don't have this information and need it. I've spent over 20 years trying to change that, and this book is the most accessible thing I've ever created.

Because once you read it, you'll know what's possible — and what to do to prevent or overcome your challenges. And when you're ready to go deeper — whether that's our programs, or simply going to a good pelvic health physiotherapist — you'll know exactly what to do.

Because I've seen what happens when women don't have this. They suffer in silence for years. They accept surgery as inevitable. They stop exercising, stop socializing, stop feeling like themselves. That doesn't have to be your story.

All I ask is that you cover the cost of shipping so I can get this into your hands.

Time Is Of The Essence...

We've printed a limited first run of this book, and when the copies are gone — they're gone. If this page is still here, the offer is live. But I reserve the right to close it at any time.

Here Is My "You've Got Nothing To Lose" Guarantee

I 100% guarantee you'll find value in this book — or I'll refund your shipping and let you keep the book anyway.

You don't need to send anything back. Just email our support team and your shipping cost is returned. No questions asked.

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This Is Truly A Limited Offer — Claim Your FREE Copy Now Before They're Gone

Thanks for taking the time to read this letter. I hope this book becomes the turning point you've been looking for.

With warmth,

Kim Vopni
The Vagina Coach

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About Kim Vopni — "The Vagina Coach"

Kim Vopni is a certified fitness professional and self-professed pelvic health evangelist who has spent 20+ years helping women navigate pelvic floor dysfunction across pregnancy, postpartum, perimenopause, and beyond.

She is the founder of Pelvienne Wellness Inc. and co-founder of Buff Muff Wellness Inc., and the creator of a professional-level education program that has trained thousands of fitness and movement professionals around the world.

She is a certified Hypopressive Method Trainer, Restorative Exercise Specialist, Certified Menopause Support Practitioner, and Certified Osteoporosis Fitness Specialist — among other qualifications.

She has authored three books, spoken at over 30 events internationally, and has over 400 free educational videos on YouTube.

You can find her at vaginacoach.com and @vaginacoach on all platforms.

Frequently Asked Questions

Frequently Asked Questions

Is this really free?

Yes. The book is free — you pay only $9.95 to cover shipping and handling in the US ($19.95 internationally). That's it. No hidden charges, no subscription.

What exactly do I get?

You get a softcover copy of Common, Not Normal — The Complete Guide To Buffing Your Muff mailed to your door.

How long does shipping take?

US orders typically arrive within 5–10 business days. International orders may take 2–4 weeks depending on your location.

Do you ship internationally?

Yes! We ship worldwide. International shipping and handling is $19.95.

What currency do you charge in?

We charge in USD, which is the standard currency for international online orders.

Is there a guarantee?

Absolutely. If you don't find value in the book, email our support team and we'll refund your shipping — no questions asked. You don't even need to send the book back.

Do I need any special equipment?

The exercises and workouts inside require no equipment and can be done pretty much anywhere. A tennis ball and a chair are all the release work needs.

Is there a subscription or recurring charge?

No. This is a one-time shipping payment. There is no subscription, no continuity program, and no fine print.

Who is this book for?

Any woman who wants to understand her pelvic floor — whether she's dealing with leaking, urgency, prolapse, pain, or simply wants to stay ahead of these issues as she ages.